Greetings!

We hope our Florida and North Carolina friends are doing okay after the recent hurricane and tropical storm activity. Our family is safe, and that’s what matters—water damage can be fixed 😃.

So, we were driving around the Appalachian State campus the other day, and our conversation drifted to our regrets about past decisions and how we wish we had had different experiences in college.

But, as we (hopefully) all know by now, regrets should be firmly secured in the past—close the 🚪 on things we can't control! Instead, we should embrace moving forward and creating new, rewarding experiences.

When I decided to get my Master's Degree at the University of Florida, part of me absolutely wanted to create a new experience and legacy for myself (my time spent at the University of Akron 40+ years ago 🍺🍻 was less than stellar, lol).

Shari expressed regrets about her past decisions, but after talking, I think she’s more excited than ever to move forward and learn new things. Do more of what you enjoy!

Remember—it’s unhealthy to live in the past, constantly saying, "I wish I had…" or "I should have…" —do something about it! Modify your goals to fit your lifestyle today, but go for it. We applaud you in advance! 👏👏

Embrace Your Best Life!
~ Curt & Shari Roese

WELLNESS
Dealing with Feelings of Retirement Regret
How to Find Fulfillment and Move Forward

Retirement can be a time of freedom and adventure—but it doesn’t always feel that way. If you’re experiencing regret, you’re not alone. Many retirees struggle with the emotional transition, but here are some ways to shift your mindset and create new meaning:

• Set New Goals: Add structure and purpose to your days.

• Volunteer or Work Part-Time: Stay engaged and feel a sense of contribution.

• Keep Learning: Stimulate your mind and open new doors.

• Strengthen Social Bonds: Connection brings joy and reduces loneliness.

• Explore New Hobbies: Whether it’s painting, gardening, or pickleball, dive into what excites you.

• Prioritize Wellness: Exercise, mindfulness, and healthy habits support emotional balance.

You can always redefine your purpose and rediscover joy. It's never too late to create a meaningful retirement chapter.

TRAVEL
Adventure Travel Tips

Adventure travel is a great way to explore, stay active, and make memories. From scenic hikes to cultural bike tours, here are a few smart tips to keep in mind:

• Pick the Right Pace: Match activities to your energy and comfort level.

• Always Get Travel Insurance: Protect your trip—and your health.

• Pack Smart: Choose lightweight gear and comfy, weather-appropriate clothes.

• Choose Senior-Friendly Tours: Many operators cater to active retirees (ask about discounts!).

• Stay Connected: Share your itinerary with loved ones and bring emergency tech like a portable charger.

Enjoy the journey—just plan ahead and stay safe. Adventure doesn’t have an age limit!

LIFESTYLE
Virtual Social Communities

Retirement is a great time to connect with others—but it’s not always easy. That’s where virtual communities shine:

• Stay Social from Home: Join book clubs, forums, or Zoom groups around shared interests.

• Keep Learning & Growing: Online communities provide mental stimulation and social connection.

• Find Your Niche: Whether it’s birdwatching or vintage cars, there’s a group for you.

• Feel Safe & Supported: Online spaces offer welcoming environments that encourage engagement.

Take the leap and explore virtual connections—it’s a meaningful way to stay active and engaged.

PRESENTED BY NATURE MADE
Finding Balance in a Busy Life

Life can feel overwhelming at times—but balance is key to well-being. Even small acts like walking outside or taking a mindful breath can ground us.

Building a wellness routine doesn’t have to be hard. Start with what feels good. Nature Made is here to support your self-care journey—plus, enjoy 25% off your first order!

SIMPLI SHARI 🩷

In retirement, there’s often a desire to start fresh. My husband embraced this by returning to school for his master’s degree. While I’ve thought about pursuing a degree, it’s not what I truly want anymore.

Instead, I’d love to take fun classes—photography, social media, maybe marketing—something that sparks joy and creativity. Retirement doesn’t mean slowing down—it can be a launchpad for new adventures.

What would you learn if you had the chance?

Embrace your best life,
🩷 Shari

RESOURCE ROUNDUP

Useful links and recommendations:

• 🙏 Support Feeding America to help fight hunger in your community.

• ☀️ Explore recent posts from the Happily Ever Retired blog.

• 🔗 Find tools to help navigate retirement with ease.

• 💰️ Monarch Money: All-in-one budgeting with a 30-day free trial.

• ⚠️ Aura: Comprehensive digital security for peace of mind.

• 💡 Game Night: Break out the board games, pour some wine, and reconnect through fun!

QUOTE OF THE WEEK
"Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass. It’s about learning how to dance in the rain."
~ Vivian Greene

PARTING WORDS

Learning doesn’t stop with age. Stay curious. Whether it's a new book, hobby, or course, engaging your mind keeps you vibrant and fulfilled.

Have a great week!